tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-64191855210326156462024-03-05T22:32:57.833-08:00Stress Free EventsBeckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.comBlogger189125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-40587448441191446952011-06-06T12:53:00.000-07:002011-06-06T13:03:01.410-07:0012 Worst Pieces of Wedding Advice<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFevCZIBJigfXhh0Twyh3ekCWptjWd0tjG0CtguU13Y_rR5Q6uFdgUUlPRGTXZc3rmKXL9dtnAO4XzLjRCqHnhWrztVMF6uiKhCS1sxVZt3DEzTpPE0L8KYes292H3qOvFcxgJn8sR2eow/s1600/180621_10150107833219238_118409394237_6087902_6208059_n.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5615198720840374066" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 269px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 400px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFevCZIBJigfXhh0Twyh3ekCWptjWd0tjG0CtguU13Y_rR5Q6uFdgUUlPRGTXZc3rmKXL9dtnAO4XzLjRCqHnhWrztVMF6uiKhCS1sxVZt3DEzTpPE0L8KYes292H3qOvFcxgJn8sR2eow/s400/180621_10150107833219238_118409394237_6087902_6208059_n.jpg" border="0" /></a><br />Brides share the most awful tips they've been given while planning their wedding.<br />By Anne Roderique-Jones<br /><br />1. Bad advice: "My grandmother told me that I must wear a white dress or else people will start thinking that I'm not a virgin. I'm a 30-year-old bride who has been living with my fiance for six years."<br />What you should do: This "rule" is completely antiquated. In fact, there are probably quite a few engaged virgins out there who will choose to wear ivory (gasp!) on their wedding day. Wear whichever color you love that looks best with your skin tone. In fact, white works best on darker skin tones, and ivory shades flatter lighter skin.<br /><br />2. Bad advice: "It's YOUR wedding, and this day is all about YOU!"<br />What you should do: It is your wedding day, but don't forget the little people. Treat your wedding party (and guests) with respect. For instance, let your bridesmaids help choose their dresses, and don't have a cash bar.<br /><br />3. Bad advice: "Type up and print generic thank-you notes ahead of time, and just slap a label with your names on them instead of signing them."<br />What you should do: Your guests took the time to choose (yes, even if it was on a registry!) and pay for your gifts, and it's your job as a gracious couple to get your thank-you notes out in a timely fashion (it's easiest to write them right when the gift arrives). Make sure they're handwritten and heartfelt.<br /><br />4. Bad advice: "You don't need a wedding planner; let your mom handle it."<br />What you should do: Unless you want your wedding to be officially mom-themed, ask your mom to help you plan some of the important and personal details, but leave the big stuff to the pros.<br /><br />5. Bad advice: "Send invites to people you know will not come."<br />What you should do: Those hopeful no-shows may decide to make an appearance. You may get the gift, but you'll also be over capacity and over budget. Invite the people whom you actually want to be at your wedding, and enjoy the day with those who matter most to you. (Stress Free Events Thoughs on this: It is perfectly acceptable to send out a wedding announcement after teh wedding to friends and family far away that you knew could not make it).<br /><br />6. Bad advice: "If it's not a diamond, then it's not a real engagement ring."<br />What you should do: Kate Middleton rocks a sapphire, and ladies in Greece wear pearls. Bottom line: Wear what you love ... or at least what was given to you.<br /><br />7. Bad advice: "Someone told me to ship the gown to New Jersey to avoid paying NYC taxes. Umm, no, that's tax evasion, and I don't look good in stripes."<br />What you should do: If you're planning to have your dress shipped, then inquire about discount codes. But picking it up at the salon is usually the most cost-effective option.<br /><br />8. Bad advice: "My future father-in-law said not to bother getting my wedding band sized down to fit because I'll just have to get it sized up one day."<br />What you should do: There's no reason that anyone has to gain the "newlywed nine." Plus, if you don't size it properly, you're much more likely to lose it!<br /><br />9. Bad advice: "My mother suggested having the cocktail hour before the ceremony."<br />What you should do: Do that and your guests will be sauced before you exchange your vows. Instead, open the bar after the ceremony, and serve nonalcoholic bevs like lemonade and cucumber water beforehand.<br /><br />10. Bad advice: "Take out a loan for the wedding!"<br />What you should do: Instead, save diligently and have a personal and meaningful wedding that you can afford. Money fights are no fun, and debt is not the way you want to enter into marriage.<br />11. Bad advice: "You'll want a short engagement so the groom doesn't change his mind."<br />What you should do: Shorter engagements leave you less time to find vendors. Most engagements are over a year long, and planning a wedding is stressful. If your groom runs away during this time, he'd never last the entire marriage. It's a good trial.<br /><br />12. Bad advice: "Cut back on costs and have a potluck and BYOB reception."<br />What you should do: A wedding is an event that you host, and these are your guests. Don't expect them to provide their own food and drink. If cost is an issue, look into having an early brunch with mimosas or having your event catered by a local restaurant, which is often more affordable.<br /><br />DISCLAIMER: This article was originally posted on MSN Lifestyle and written by The KnotBeckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-22576813303232964142011-01-01T08:42:00.000-08:002011-01-01T09:11:05.758-08:002011 Changes are bigI have thought long and hard about business for this year. I have made a decision to step back and take a little bit of a break from Stress Free Events. Don't read that as I am done, but I am limiting greatly the events that I do. <br /><br />I am excited to do the weddings I already have on the books, and will be happy to help any of my past clients with any of their needs. I am only accepting new clients on referrals from my past clients right now. <br /><br />I started a new job in July. I am working for the school district and I have the flexibility to keep working on weddings and other events. At the same time I feel that I have not been available to my family as much as I would like. <br /><br />Both of my kids are in school now and by the time we get home, get homework done, and have dinner we have very little time for play time. Add weddings multiple weekends a month on top of that, and I feel like I am missing out on their childhood. This is such a great age for them and I want to miss as little as possible. I also have lost my grandmother at the end of this year, and my mother in law is starting a new battle with cancer (she has beaten it before, and we know she will again). These events have just proven to me how precious time with family is. My parents are still young and working and with the kids in school the best time for us to spend with family is on the weekends. I want my family to know the closeness and precious relationships you can only have with grandparents.<br /><br />I could never give up weddings entirely. They are a part of me. I feel like so many of you are a part of my family now. I just will not be advertising for new clients. I will not be taking on back to back weekend events. I will be working with some of the vendors and venues I have grown to love over the years to help them with their businesses and keep in touch with the wedding world, but on a more limited capacity. <br /><br />In an effort to keep costs down, I have decided that I will be letting my website go, and my email. I don't see paying to host that at this time. I have this blog to share with you as well as my facebook page. <br />My new email is <a href="mailto:stressfreeevents@hotmail.com">stressfreeevents@hotmail.com</a><br />My cell phone is still the same and don't hesitate to contact me. I am still here for you.<br />Love you All<br />Becky Sosa<br />and Family<br />Happy New YearBeckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-21096134074380287762010-12-07T19:12:00.000-08:002010-12-08T07:30:00.497-08:00Sarah and Collin<div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi28L5PzokyOInZZe2t3bsfHUGHHsWyG0-Z2j5Ju8-Keciu6fH-VvzVjFK3L-f84dUQryoiE8j9kWIyiCooTBvta13rPc7n5PIhVK5vMZAnoS-Td64PmAhkaZgx0RVbdBwklIXGoYjwn2Ae/s1600/happy+couple.bmp"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5548330233453087042" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 266px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 400px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi28L5PzokyOInZZe2t3bsfHUGHHsWyG0-Z2j5Ju8-Keciu6fH-VvzVjFK3L-f84dUQryoiE8j9kWIyiCooTBvta13rPc7n5PIhVK5vMZAnoS-Td64PmAhkaZgx0RVbdBwklIXGoYjwn2Ae/s400/happy+couple.bmp" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div>Horseshoe Bay was just a dream come true for Sarah and Collin. I was so glad that I was a part of their fairy tale wedding. Horseshoe Bay did so much to make this easy on me. AJH Photography did a great job capturing this great event, and the party that followed the picturesque ceremony. The party included the groom ending up in the pool, you know its a party then. <img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5548330509076741106" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 266px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 400px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkY9pEu9Y9-hU5N5nwzfvePUu77dM8y7wiE49SOuAz4RHdUlLe5NY_9XLj73VP47j1k49VWb82dCMyd2KwhNxcqlVtPQn8Dsq3YTJHVbI7F_T0aseMk2-VJofBmjFJ2XZQXdw-81iGjwuh/s400/guys+coming+over.bmp" border="0" /></div>The Guys came over from across the lake on a boat. Unloaded right at the ceremony site and walked up wiped some sweat from their brows and escourted the girls down the aisle.<img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5548330718484400194" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 266px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZ2WwbxCxfhodo_MGm_0erzcOALWo8vHg7WWT3OS24XD9RhWpS6ZZdspOJslY1VzonYDDwRWAMQbYiki75aoevaSNtGSb7nR9dppOMJNLTy4OZIPhhEG2HZwPWryfY35TTKuueybb7dixy/s400/on+the+beach.bmp" border="0" /></div><br /><div>Right after the ceremony they took some photos on the beach area. Perfect setting.<br /></div><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5548330798697289538" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 266px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgU6EoYfxO-NTuh3nZyxJB2Dcr4BOCfPZ8c_89aqk-8CiNjLbNTAVToOSPLMUCa6l5AgZEoXWrxNcM-TsQCuvAYLdhodRc3iRRhRjRnDzjeziqCwldP4yJhHukivSOYxgOGndDzDBLJzFN8/s400/the+flip.jpg" border="0" />Yes he flipped her right on the dance floor. They knew how to party.<br /><br /><br /><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5548330598279214002" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 266px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEha2kOAWK9K92u1IGaLx6wRIq8vstL0I6isTmT94k6d_twwnaJHTAkblAA8kjvW2eVexQiqGN3657Vo1tinWGqD-R1_SAfn-zHsR3uTkVZHqpCd93e97U7zpvkFeraHgZuvvuuKwuDPAx3f/s400/groom+in+pool.jpg" border="0" />And before the night was over the groom ended up being tossed into the pool. Seems he did something similar to his brother at his wedding so it was payback time.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-29535904253438697272010-11-29T16:12:00.000-08:002010-11-29T19:08:32.342-08:00Christine and Parker<div><br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg06ZMHM3wTgruh0QJSyWQ60bFt_CG3akzmHFnnbOhc0doO_LpvAfZKjUrRlBvJP7bfUFctJHIo7Iecld9VNbWHNTZHBGYJvOmqJIJGpulkEH0Y7iAhPX3UJTjhSjtxGRAYZ3EXS_1zWXd9/s1600/40901_479177471004_531616004_7331158_3281931_n.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5545171629986484818" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg06ZMHM3wTgruh0QJSyWQ60bFt_CG3akzmHFnnbOhc0doO_LpvAfZKjUrRlBvJP7bfUFctJHIo7Iecld9VNbWHNTZHBGYJvOmqJIJGpulkEH0Y7iAhPX3UJTjhSjtxGRAYZ3EXS_1zWXd9/s400/40901_479177471004_531616004_7331158_3281931_n.jpg" /></a>I have known Christine and Parker for awhile now. Christine was a bridesmaid in Kelly's wedding last year. When they came to me to coordinate their wedding I couldn't have been happier. It was a beautiful wedding. The details were wonderful and I have to say they were one of the most precious couples to work with. Here are a few photos. Check out more at our facebook page. </div><div><br /><div>The Stephen F. Austin Hotel was the perfect setting. The staff was great and the food was wonderful. A few communication details slipped when the event manager left and a new one came on, but they made it all work out great. </div><br /><div>Photos were captured by the team of Carli and John from inked fingers fotography. I love working with them. And the photos captured it all so well. </div><br /><div>There were so many others involved in making this day happen. Let me know if you want contact information for any of them.</div><br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 261px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5545171775994813538" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQ72Pmf4he3r9BxPTGZ8eFYnFrSu7Dpqii_GIbwtMprqgVWIQ7PoxCXvSrRCavZzQIfDUizR4u738-rTNbEbgp1BS2NOd194P_O_wDMgQCoiz0INk_13jenFYn37UaiP5yDccL1FcneYrD/s400/33748_470147261004_531616004_7157545_244665_n.jpg" />This was just a precious moment caught after they left in the horse drawn carriage.<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5545172502183953042" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhanaDqDWE5LgLbsAY52353x074vBR5dILP0S8oDtQdslnqIs1EUOjkph9lRURWw5sZN_NP7DelWkPRHPvuYyxtI7ydHvORpaRSv3nq5ilT-Jf04ldtZY-YjzJWcxkpCnIJIP1EQLy6wu8o/s400/child+and+dog.jpg" />These two just about stole the show. <img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5545172204556084482" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyd5uqKkyQSPg3XWxO2ri97fgeHPFj3UGK-_xHXzUJhyphenhyphenP0BUHupkog-moZCXfKm7FHahsmIDLc5HiQILjglwBVm2Lvn5Wnd4CRYZ8KiQIrNaD8fyMRjTd6MEp_Qthr3HXbaKImCMMVyk3Y/s400/66681_482711941004_531616004_7393244_1755223_n.jpg" />Loved the colors they choose.</div></div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-63043929395619808882010-11-29T15:36:00.000-08:002010-11-29T19:09:11.075-08:00It's been way too long.<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEinNAO-OO6tgWGd3H7ufdaljeTIkzFFzQYoxezxbB1VXJpWjFsSI1NK2xZ6ezabxER7ijrj5aztw2tSQ3WZWCF2kewzdLHsCElxAYCpP6CyzvcmoYJbT4pNhAlrkyytEimsam-sBHiI34FQ/s1600/a518c0ebaf66c648bfb8ad07960525e6_ImSorry090207042645.gif"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 344px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 279px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5545168020608524930" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEinNAO-OO6tgWGd3H7ufdaljeTIkzFFzQYoxezxbB1VXJpWjFsSI1NK2xZ6ezabxER7ijrj5aztw2tSQ3WZWCF2kewzdLHsCElxAYCpP6CyzvcmoYJbT4pNhAlrkyytEimsam-sBHiI34FQ/s400/a518c0ebaf66c648bfb8ad07960525e6_ImSorry090207042645.gif" /></a><br /><div>Ok I knew I was behind on blogging. I just didn't realize how long. So please forgive me. I promise to start blogging tonight. At the rate that my computer is uploading photos it might be tomorrow before anything is actually posted.</div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-22107988491860611672010-06-30T07:46:00.000-07:002010-06-30T07:54:44.933-07:00Idea for smaller weddings.<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdlp2cksSqOgRjrCXaxiFXXoszjqrqSR968755ea1ABKcjOFfqos63EXlSKtFWWKIrMaYdHPotcpYogsCpgbBdwy6zjOT84Ktz-SK11JsgeoWMK-PnYN2n2w5MRtyllimBvn0f-drNX8a4/s1600/wedding-china.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5488580128089375186" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdlp2cksSqOgRjrCXaxiFXXoszjqrqSR968755ea1ABKcjOFfqos63EXlSKtFWWKIrMaYdHPotcpYogsCpgbBdwy6zjOT84Ktz-SK11JsgeoWMK-PnYN2n2w5MRtyllimBvn0f-drNX8a4/s400/wedding-china.jpg" /></a><br />I have many brides that are freaked out a little at the cost to rent china for their wedding. I am planning a shower right now and got an idea for a wedding. I have this amazing china that was my grandmothers. My mom has some beautiful china as well. My other grandmother has some great china as well. Well if you have a smaller wedding and are not stuck on everything matching fully then here is the idea. Have several family members host different reception tables. Depending on the size of their collection they might be able to host two tables. You still cover the tables with a neutral table cloth and make arrangements for the centerpieces but your family and friends provide the china place settings. This would work great with a dinner that is served family style. Again i would not recommend this for large weddings, but smaller events this would work very well. And gives your family a way to participate in your big day.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-17040969246996383412010-06-09T07:32:00.000-07:002010-06-09T07:36:39.135-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxsxHjMkRa1x2r9uvG4wFUcoIdcQB7vpKpaozmTFsZytfdRXXX-FjkoxR2Yzzyzrer73PdLH0BYzU3JTItW73MSbfWiM5ZybWxKJL29wecNTgIW2KcHQBQgq2WpqBSTMcHmXNNaPjQGcIp/s1600/0130.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5480782732010611506" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxsxHjMkRa1x2r9uvG4wFUcoIdcQB7vpKpaozmTFsZytfdRXXX-FjkoxR2Yzzyzrer73PdLH0BYzU3JTItW73MSbfWiM5ZybWxKJL29wecNTgIW2KcHQBQgq2WpqBSTMcHmXNNaPjQGcIp/s400/0130.jpg" /></a><br /><div>This is a great artical from the <a href="http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-planning/wedding-ceremony/articles/20-tips-for-writing-your-own-wedding-vows.aspx">Knot</a><br /><br />So you thought it'd be great to write your own wedding vows, but now a healthy dose of writer's block (not to mention fear of embarrassing yourself) has hit you squarely on the head. Don't know how to transform your heavy, life-altering, feelings into a string of coherent words? You're not alone -- but don't worry, your goal is within reach: Just take it one word at a time. Here's the homework you need to do (and the questions you should ask) to make your wedding vows perfect.<br /><br /><br />Prep Step A: Get clearance<br />Make sure your officiant will accept personalized vows. Catholic and Episcopal congregations, for instance, may require you to recite all or part of the traditional vows, though in most cases that's left to the officiant's discretion. Remember: Even the most accommodating officiant will want to review your words in advance.<br /><br /><br />Prep Step B: Make a plan<br />You need to tackle the logistics to make sure you and your fiance are both on the same page: Are you each going to write your own, or will you write them together? Will you show them to each other before the ceremony?<br /><br />Knot Note: If you're feeling shy, opt to write your vows together and even recite the exact same promises. If there's more you wish to say, privately, say it in the cards you exchange on the day of your wedding or on your honeymoon.<br /><br /><br />Prep Step C: Create your outline<br />An outline can help to establish a structure that you both stick to. For example, plan to first talk about how great your fiance is, then about how great you are as a couple, then about what you're vowing to each other.<br /><br /><br />Prep Step D: Find your voice<br />What overall tone do you want: Humorous and touching? Poetic and mushy? It's your call -- the most important thing is that your vows ring true and sound like they're from your heart.<br /><br /><br />Prep Step E: Cut it down<br />Finally, pick a length and stick to it by keeping the mantra pithy and to the point in mind -- anything longer than a minute or so, and no matter how gorgeous your prose, the audience will start to squirm.<br /><br /><br />Ready to Write!<br />What exactly do you say? To help you think of sentiments to include, take turns answering this list of questions. When you're done, look through your answers for the phrases that best capture your intended message and incorporate them into the structure of your vows.<br /><br /><br /><br />What did you think when you first saw him/her? Start from the beginning -- you didn't want to go out and now you're grateful your friends dragged you out? How to use: When we met at __________, I knew __________.<br /><br /><br /><br />When did you realize you were in love? The more specific you are able to be, the more touching the story. Was it when he helped you bring your sick puppy to the vet? How to use: I knew I was in love when ____________. Don't underestimate the power of humor. Throw in at least one more playful sentiment (When she recited Don Mattingly's RBI record...).<br /><br /><br />What do you have now that you didn't have before you met? Focus on the heart and head, not material possessions. Has she taught you to appreciate beauty differently? Has he helped you learn to savor creating a home-cooked meal? How to use: Before I met you, I ___________. Now I ___________.<br /><br /><br />How has your worldview changed? Life has likely gotten better since the two of you joined forces, so tell everyone about it. How to use: Because of you, I see the world __________. Having trouble? Think about the new things you've tried with your mate -- what have you experienced together that you never would have on your own?<br /><br /><br />What do you miss most when you're apart? This will probably be something mundane but powerful -- what about his smile first thing in the morning, or the way she puts out your lucky mug for your morning coffee? How to use: You are such a part of me that when you're gone, I __________.<br /><br /><br />Where do you see yourselves in 10 years? 20 years? 40 years? Go deeper than Happily married in a big house. What are your long-term hopes, dreams, and goals? How to use: I look forward to __________, laughing and __________ as we __________.<br /><br /><br />Is there a line from a movie, song, or poem that says it all? It's okay to borrow, as long as it's not too much of a cliche (we're sorry, but You complete me is suffering from overuse). Instead modify something familiar to personalize. How to use: Subtly. I watch you ________, and I think to myself, what a wonderful world.<br /><br /><br />Do parts of the traditional vows resonate with you? Maybe you're not so sure about the obey part, but can you really go wrong with love, cherish, and...? How to use: Try I promise to cherish and honor you ____________, but add a time frame and funny reference for levity: ...all the days of my life, especially when curled up on the couch with takeout.<br /><br /><br />Can you think of a funny or touching experience that put your partner in a new light? The way he played with your little cousin or helped your grandmother up the stairs showed you that under his macho exterior is a wittle, bitty bunny wabbit and you love him for it. How to use: When you ____________, I saw you for the _____________ person you are. And that made me want to ____________.<br /><br /><br />Is there a harrowing experience that strengthened your bond? This one rides tandem with #9. How to use: See #9.<br /><br /><br />What goals and values do you both have? Stating your common bond may just expose your inner Wordsworth. These ties -- whether your shared faith or your mutual love of wine -- will also help demonstrate why you're a perfect pair. How to use: We share ___________, so together we can ___________.<br /><br /><br />What about him/her inspires you? What is it about your fiance that you'd like to improve in yourself? What do you most respect about your partner? How to use: Your ___________ has shown me how to be___________.<br /><br /><br />What promise can you make to codify your devotion? Here's an opportunity to personalize your vows -- many couples pledge their endless love, but how many promise to take the dog out in the morning, even in the snow? How to use: I promise to always ___________.<br /><br /><br />How will you change together? You know what your goals are -- think about the steps the two of you will need to take together to reach them. How to use: I look forward to ___________ as we __________.<br /><br /><br />What metaphor (or simile) would capture your love? Think of something that describes or defines your love: Is it strong like a castle? Peaceful like a mountain stream? How to use: Our love is like a ___________ because it ___________.<br /><br /><br />Why are you entering the bond of marriage? Think about why marrying your fiance is so special. You may be surprised how the answer leads you to the perfect words. How to use: To me, marriage is ___________. With you, it's ___________.<br /><br /><br />What will keep your marriage strong? Find the bedrock of your relationship. What makes your relationship tick? Is it your resilience? Your shared sense of humor? How to use: Even when ___________, we will have ___________.<br /><br /><br />What are you most looking forward to about married life? The wedding is just the beginning. How to use: I look forward to ___________ as we embark on ___________.<br /><br /><br />What do you expect out of married life? Defining your expectations will help you make and keep promises. Think about your dreams, and what you'll have to vow to do to make them come true. How to use: I know our marriage will ___________ and I vow to ___________.<br /><br /><br />What words do you associate with love? Make a list of romantic terms so you can avoid overusing love -- too many repetitions dilute its power. How to use: My devotion/adoration/ passion is ___________. </div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-33171363621776632842010-05-24T18:01:00.000-07:002010-05-24T18:06:24.259-07:00Dress for your body<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCwFDvt8lUjzWa4Y4206dK-ujBihPZnLzfEJWDt1pSG7lK-RCEkfthyphenhyphenJIFt0cLwF7gkbR-vWwNgmSATUAi4GBkth8sZZVzrsQ0lqL847-zRvhfU1jeAkx7X6bPXdnkj712Y9GCltF6iZnf/s1600/deena.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 266px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5475007502874650722" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCwFDvt8lUjzWa4Y4206dK-ujBihPZnLzfEJWDt1pSG7lK-RCEkfthyphenhyphenJIFt0cLwF7gkbR-vWwNgmSATUAi4GBkth8sZZVzrsQ0lqL847-zRvhfU1jeAkx7X6bPXdnkj712Y9GCltF6iZnf/s400/deena.jpg" /></a><br />You are... an Hour Glass<br />Tall or short, hourglass girls' bodies are defined more by their typically curvy frame. If you are an hourglass you’ll have a naturally thin waist with a medium to large bust and smaller shoulders. Small waists and curvy figures mean that often hourglass girls have more defined hips.<br />Tips to Remember: Being curvy isn't a bad thing! If you are blessed with curves and love them then why not opt for a sheath gown that shows off your shape? Panelling, beading and silk inserts of lace can help distract from problem areas and draw the eye to your favourite assets. For those who would like to diminish the curves, choose a dress with a tight bodice or cinched waist and a full skirt like an A-line dress or ball gown.<br />The dress for you: Sheath, ball gown or A-line.<br /><br />You are... Pear Shaped<br />With curve on the bottom half, pear shaped girls will often have a smaller bust paired with a slimmer torso and waist. On the bottom half, pear shaped girls tend to have shapely hips, butt and thighs and usually carry little weight on the back.<br />Tips to Remember: Your slim shoulders waist and torso means that dresses with intricate top halves such as detailing across the décolletage or shaping in the torso are great choices for you. Empire line and ball gown dresses skim over the hips and thighs whilst your trusty friend the A-line is a great choice for wedding attire. Another good option is to show off your back with a plunging back on a simple halter or ball gown dress.<br />The dress for you: Empire, A-line or ball gown.<br /><br />You are... an Apple<br />Shapely slim legs and delicate shoulders are some of the key features of an apple shape. With a larger bust, wider torso and a full waist you have a curvy and feminine figure.<br />Tips to Remember: Most people opt for longer length gowns but with your killer legs a tea length gown may be a great option! Another thing to think about is a gown that is floor length but features a subtle slit. Empire line dresses tend to flatter apple figures a lot as they re-proportion the figure and draw the eye up towards the bust. A-line dresses again add balance while a dress that cinches heavily at the waist can help create a more hour glass figure.<br />The dress for you: Tea length, empire or A-line.<br /><br />You are... Petite<br />Small with delicate body features and subtle curves, you tend to also be a little bit shorter than most. An average size bust and naturally toned body means that proportion is key.<br />Tips to Remember: A lot of your tips are around hemlines. If you feel swamped in a full length gown, play around with one of a shorter length. Don't be afraid to play around with different hem shapes like asymmetrical, pillow or tulip shapes. A simple sheath dress can be very classic, or to elongate the frame a tailored empire or A-line dress can work wonders.<br />The dress for you: Tea length, empire or A-line.<br /><br />You are... Slim Athletic<br />Thin and tall, your straight and narrow frame may not have a lot of curve. Small around the bottom and the bust, your typically thin or toned frame can benefit from a little pomp and frill.<br />Tips to Remember: If you love your figure why not show it off in a sheath? A straight sheath or mermaid dress can add curves and enhance your figure all on its own. And with the addition of beading around the bust or ties at the waist it can create a feminine form. A ball gown with its full skirt will instantly fill out your frame while an empire line dress can help create shape on your top half.<br />The dress for you: Empire, sheath, ball gown.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-90600663859144745602010-05-24T17:39:00.000-07:002010-05-24T18:01:00.448-07:00Dress BreakdownThe Dress Breakdown <br />Dresses may all look quite different but you will find that with a little close examination they will fall into one of the following groups.... <br /><br />The Empire Line: Falling from under the bust, an empire line dress can have a full skirt (great for hiding hips and thighs) a tulip, bubble or puff shape (great for creating curve) or even a bit of an A-line shape (balancing). The top half itself can vary from dress to dress giving this one style a lot of variance. <br /><br />The Ball Gown: Often called the fairy tale dress, a ball gown will have a shaped bodice sometimes with a lace up back or a corset type top with a full skirt. These may be in separates or together as a one piece. The skirt can fall on or below the hip line and is a great shape to create a sense of drama. The tight fitting bodice will balance out the full skirt making it a great choice for many body types. <br /><br />The Tea Length: Not so much a dress shape as a length. While many girls will instantly think floor length when looking for a ball or wedding gown, shorter lengths are now just as popular. These are great for showing off legs that you love or the detail on footwear. A great choice for summer events or petite frames. <br /><br />The A-Line / Princess: Shaped through the bodice until the hip line where the dress falls away to an A shaped line. The A-line is one of the most typical shapes and is very balancing. These dresses can be found in both full length and shorter gowns and are a great choice for pear shaped girls. <br /><br />The Mermaid or Sheath: Fitted throughout the body a sheath is a simple, elegant and sexy shape. Typically best for narrow frames these dresses have a classic and timeless appeal.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-572404327459944602010-05-24T07:57:00.001-07:002010-05-24T08:16:19.265-07:00Flower Girl Help<div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOUVNtIeG-PC9kBjYv2En2QOFE9-QRGwmUKHTbgQ9YXUg-SkjsCKTFmruk0o5TZfnb-FrbwT7vlfasxXD6MueO0qvpy9m3pUXJG9WPCBSRAr10nFCoJOjKxaxICyfeirtAEWrVoZTvTihO/s1600/tutu4.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 268px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5474854015349793426" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOUVNtIeG-PC9kBjYv2En2QOFE9-QRGwmUKHTbgQ9YXUg-SkjsCKTFmruk0o5TZfnb-FrbwT7vlfasxXD6MueO0qvpy9m3pUXJG9WPCBSRAr10nFCoJOjKxaxICyfeirtAEWrVoZTvTihO/s400/tutu4.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><div>Depending on the age of your flower girl you might be having a hard time coming up with the perfect gift for her. Well I have found what every little girl wants. <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/tutusavvy">Tutu Savvy</a> has it for them. Angie at Tutu Savvy is local to central Texas and so shipping is minimal or non-existent. I can personally pick things up from her and deliver them to you. Her Etsy site does not have all her tutu's but I can get you more photos. She makes hair pieces and flip flops to match. These are high quality and can be made for any size child and in color you want. I recommend these as they are reasonable price and well loved by any little girl. <img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5474854510520357538" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh5p0dKVmiYN8bWWDnwsuNYm48NTPnSxQFs-Wq2k7bJMXBp608Pca2sw3XO1gcgVzKgJZnI5ocRVXJCezjTu49ync7WExLN6gtnlR9cMXxGujym6N7Q-SFOnJhW8O1xqFOsr9kLkUBr1E1A/s400/tutu3.jpg" /></div></div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-15647853445850709782010-03-28T19:37:00.001-07:002010-03-30T16:06:24.246-07:00Eco Friendly WeddingI am all about saving resources and using them wisley. At the same time we know that alot if the choices we have in doing so can be a little costly. So what are some ways we can made sure to be eco friendly at your wedding? I have gathered tips from all over. If I know the source its cited. If its something that I have just heard along the way and picked up I can't cite a source so if you know where the source came from add it. Thanks<br />From Better Homes and Gardens:<br />1.Set the tone: For outdoor weddings use a location that is filled with natural beauty that will not need lots of extra items brought in to make it pretty. Inside weddings choose something like a museum where your deposit goes to a worth cause as well.<br />2. Choose an eco freindly jewler. Ask where the diamonds come from. Many jewlers now are also using recycled gold for the settings.<br />3.Local Vendors: By sticking to local vendors your keep travel down and thus the eco blueprint. Also boost local economy. Ask if your vendors are making eco smart choices (Like for me I don't print every paper I get. I also use the backs of preciously printed on forms for things that do need to be printed. I set up as many meetings in one location in one day as possible. Keeps fuel limited and costs down for all. Also I collect and save items from weddings that can be reused in another wedding like vases etc so that brides don't have to buy more and have excess laying around).<br />From Various Locations<br />4. Rent items or look into brideshares that allow you to purchase only one set of something and share with another (split the cost). Rentals keeps from making the same item over and over. Also rented plates are cleaned and returned where plastic plates or paper plates while they seem cheaper generate a lot of waste.<br />5. Limit the guest list. Less paper going out (invitations) less waste. Smaller venue so less energy used. <br />6.Use recycled paper wherever possible for wedding invitations; most companies can offer this option. Also consider treeless paper made from materials such as bamboo, hemp and kenaf. Even the type of ink used for the invitation should be taken into account as some inks can be toxic. <br />7.Weddings can generate a huge amount of paper consumption, so give careful thought to items that can be reduced. For example, instead of a program for everyone, perhaps one per couple or group.<br />8. Instead of having everyone drive from their hotels/motels or wherever they are staying to the wedding or reception venue, perhaps organize a car pool or hire vans to transport everyone to and from your wedding venue. A great deal of fuel can be saved this way, not to mention it will help ensure those who have imbibed in the spirit of the occasion a little too much will get back to their accommodation safely.<br />9.Everyone likes a photographic record of a marriage ceremony, so instead of sending out hundreds of paper based photographs, save on postage, processing and toxic chemicals by storing digital images on your wedding blog for family and friends to download as they please; printing out only what's absolutely necessary.<br />10.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-83727499313059429912010-03-24T19:08:00.000-07:002010-03-25T11:25:35.047-07:00RSVP What?<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhkOa3rVSV0s0dJnApyFmeoPYz5O9J21_d2ULZWWZ62Ij1QwvZLF3tQVhl-9NY8-6s-JGdCbRWevDc2N_y8zuGGhi5vEsCFS4y9byoYyO3F2sFHYUQkbD_3diZephAqjCO1u7wIVwaHL7gX/s1600/127_front.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5452392094885055506" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhkOa3rVSV0s0dJnApyFmeoPYz5O9J21_d2ULZWWZ62Ij1QwvZLF3tQVhl-9NY8-6s-JGdCbRWevDc2N_y8zuGGhi5vEsCFS4y9byoYyO3F2sFHYUQkbD_3diZephAqjCO1u7wIVwaHL7gX/s400/127_front.jpg" /></a>R.S.V.P. stands for a French phrase, "répondez, s'il vous plaît," which means "please reply."<br /><br /><div>As you are planning for your big day you need to know how many guest to plan for so the RSVP or response card is very important. Things that hinge on the number of guest include: How many tables and chairs you will need, how much food and beverage you will need, how large a cake you will need, how many centerpieces, and how many wedding favors. Just to name a few. </div><br /><br /><div><strong><em>Helpful hints to the guest:</em></strong> Please send this card back. The couple really wants to know if your coming or not. They will be okay if you have to respectfully decline. Don't assume that by not sending it in they know you can't make it. Also don't assume that because you mentioned you would be there they remembered. </div><br /><br /><div>Also put your name on the card somewhere to make sure they know who is replying. </div><br /><br /><div>Most couples have already addressed and stamped the card its not hard to send it back in the mail. </div><br /><br /><div><strong><em>To the couples:</em></strong> Discreetly put a number on each card and make sure that number relates to the guest list. For example. Aunt Mary is number 14 on your guest list in a discreet corner write 14 on the card or in the inside of the envelope. So when you get card 14 back and Aunt Mary forgot to write her name you know who sent it. </div><br /><br /><div>Also if it fits your wedding you can do a response post card. The postage on a postcard is cheaper.</div><br /><br /><div>Make it clean what you need to know on the response card. You can look on line and get plenty of ideas on wording depending on the details of your day. </div><br /><br /><div>Know that even if you did not write "plus one" your guest will still try to bring extra guests. You will need to be prepared with a response. Either plan for some extras or plan to call then and let them know you did not plan on anyone extra. </div><br /><br /><div>Give guest about three weeks prior to your wedding as a deadline. This gives them time to make arrangements and confirm their calendars. </div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-29355075287464049472010-03-24T11:24:00.000-07:002010-03-24T12:17:18.153-07:00Escort Cards and displays.<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdJ7dFNlmRXzTub7e7ZwrSxtMsYyWHlmZqzNbuEh5IZmvAje8s5vsGD5EUdzAOySE7eFoPCYV_3yy0I8u97oE50te0meY0UBmaayA9-nbbqM-b2x88ivjdANiTOn9gYnmubZDyLi_WKSiD/s1600/table+numbers.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5452280990814523938" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdJ7dFNlmRXzTub7e7ZwrSxtMsYyWHlmZqzNbuEh5IZmvAje8s5vsGD5EUdzAOySE7eFoPCYV_3yy0I8u97oE50te0meY0UBmaayA9-nbbqM-b2x88ivjdANiTOn9gYnmubZDyLi_WKSiD/s400/table+numbers.jpg" /></a>There is always a question if you need escort cards if you are having a buffet or other casual reception meal. My personal preference is yes you do need them. Traditionally with a plated meal the escort card comes in handy so that the wait staff can quickly and efficiently deliver food to your guests. In my experience guest don't mind being told where to sit. For something casual you might not want to assign seats but I do recommend assigning them to a table. So once you know this is something you want to do how do you let people know where to sit? You have to place escort cards out in one location (preferable set out alphabetically) where they can easily grab theirs during the cocktail hour or as they are walking into the reception. I am including several photos here of possibly options. Traditional to casual to unique. Some are from my past weddings and some are just things I have collected from other peoples weddings. Enjoy.<br /><div><div><div><div><div><div><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5452269983604363698" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1BBZzAN1YuQbZ2zLJofD1b8syimwi5jUOYGAw7JTWji4kWP33FESlUr4Ohi80ONaiMql-bSJNR2cXFP-9o2ro81Ox2RMeMSyWFWirXVvMECLqbiLRdlUyn6I_2qoAz3Wd0rWRpoT9XjR8/s400/escord+cards+5.JPG" />This particular couple went with traditional tent fold cards with the guest name over the table number. The colors of card stock fit into their color scheme, but also represented what that guest had requested for food.</div><div> </div><div><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 269px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 396px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5452272371132666242" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGfs4-XdjpIsxOHynoJJbTNEZhCktFCtE28xl7TEvIqNHQl3M7xS68r9NiAVw6AoTELEdeLkvM_WUJ71KSwao1Bx-dOiMo0oHrdIR4xO7XVTQ5OzLIJCNzCOD80k6qwFRbiiKC7Rgu0LyN/s400/DSC_0094.JPG" />This couple also used the tent fold cards. they tied theirs to a black rot iron gate that was rented. The cards were run through a printer to put the guests names and table number on them, but then a stamp was used to add a little color. I will say it took guest some time to find their names on this one because rows were not possible because of the shape of the gate.</div><div><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5452274626964523282" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhiLSrG0umHHLRQZMy0OOPIXchnFVR0INrjp2j0R0vFRWslDB_WMEMLmuYDW3GWIWHVWAAAQDGnn7NLyrQZprWf3KBIotHUfcMdbO5oDwG8ceZbtgnQYj6NV56wv3GGbUtsEDfA_XAIk8EH/s400/071208+197.jpg" />This is a fun idea for a wedding with a beach theme or on the water. Just be sure to have a few extra sand dollars available the day of and the pen in case some break in transport. I have seen this like this with just the guest name on one side and the table number is on the back or or is tied on with a small ribbon. A container with sand is an easy way to hold these.<br /></div></div><div><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 227px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5452277009009544290" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEFycMuppfLlhfSJnWixo9iZuqCz6iJOSZfwQvWJ2fPisdiV1Yv3s8RNubuz2whno46QEyDmdyww74_FfowDVUjrj4yluBegpyPDhbG-lgUEopHObXN6n_OBQDD75ZfBUQjVSo19zDcAYD/s400/chadler+escort+card.jpg" />This Chandelier style display is made using vases twigs and crystal strands. The cards are tied or hooked to the stands and the twigs. Guest do have to do a little hunting on these as well, but if its on the center of a round table they can get all the way around it to look.<br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5452278452430725970" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1JtWzUgpXU37Mi6lTP5iWhA0wTqy6IcZrnttINe7ktapowuj-8MuLsIa3In2mT7IGIj4gkjGD6jgvI-JE2M6XW-f_wBK-o9iAmn2qk4B1bf02z_B6REgeaIbGf30os3_mWujQSl2rfwvh/s400/hdwfls07_escort_stones_lg.jpg" />Hand made with smooth river stones. This again is for a particular feel of wedding. the table numbers are not on these but could be added to the back or under the name. This is fairly casual with no last names. I think you would want to make sure last names were included to keep from any confusion. <img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5452279347048231714" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhn-vgXa1bbCMCiHKrlv0JyT-wy0cbG3THn28FeyLz1ThXdpcn4yCjIcwkZ9lQ0ek-0opyXilgGcWgL5ZTubkB7UINng-cAxyoflh_eBrBitXSUYIKYEu0fBP2UCOnNQp648qqN43A4Q3H8/s400/of=50,590,442.jpg" />This display can be altered and changed to fit your style. Vases can be filled with colored sand to incorporate your color and more cards can be place in the vases. This particular couple did a couple of different trays to cover the alphabet and placed them a few feet apart to allow guest ease to them and to keep from guest crowding. The advantage is the vases can be reused later in your home, or even to hold bridesmaids bouquets once the guest have taken their names.<br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div></div></div></div></div></div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-14996307548721738622010-03-22T12:34:00.000-07:002010-03-22T13:18:22.049-07:00Birthday Fiesta<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiH163oiBhvoHzpPDAxCmYLP7wuY8H59R13CXMhP1BS6lHfeBWHgJU-U-auuyBncSql_1EeJGh-wBLO7aO6f0G3ImHo8431odnpfUmYXDTeA5A8DZwTdwHmOYMvx7Vq4_rMuFxtol14LbJ5/s1600-h/happy+birthday.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5451554907942537074" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiH163oiBhvoHzpPDAxCmYLP7wuY8H59R13CXMhP1BS6lHfeBWHgJU-U-auuyBncSql_1EeJGh-wBLO7aO6f0G3ImHo8431odnpfUmYXDTeA5A8DZwTdwHmOYMvx7Vq4_rMuFxtol14LbJ5/s400/happy+birthday.JPG" /></a><br /><div>Well its that time of year. My kids birthday party. I love planning kids birthday parties and being able to plan one for my kids personally is so much fun. A few months back we all agreed on a Birthday Fiesta. It gets a little harder every year to plan a party that both the kids can get into. Isaiah is now 8 and all boy and Christina is 6 and a total girly girl. So here are the details.</div><br /><div>First the invitations: I bought plain bright colored invitations that were blank. On the outside I stamped them with a stamp that said Fiesta with Maraca's and a Sombrero. On the inside I had a stamp that said your invited... and I filled in all the details. I didn't want to do much more for invitations because I was handing out over fifty invitations (thanks to the school rules that all kids in class are invited to parties). </div><br /><div>The kids outfits: Thanks to my sister in law, Nery, my kids were in authentic Mexican clothes. They were made and purchased while she was in Mexico for her brothers wedding. The kids loved them. </div><br /><div>The Cake: My mom and my sister, Teresa, made the cake. I have always loved the cakes my mom does. They came up with a design that said Happy Birthday and had Maracas and a sombrero on it. They kept it bright and fun. It was perfect.</div><br /><div>Decorations: Since the weather turned bad we did not have this at the park as planned but at the fellowship at the hall. I covered tables with plastic table cloths in red, green, and yellow. I made tissue paper flowers and bunched them together for centerpieces and used some as a garland across a couple of poles. </div><br /><div>Food: I made a taco bar. Meat, lettuce, tomatoes, cheese, and flour tortillas. Also made some rice. </div><br /><div>Activities: As kids arrived I had a table set up with crayons and markers. Each child was given a brown paper lunch sack and asked to put their name on it and decorate it. I then collected the bags and while everyone was eating had them filled with Peanuts an apple and some Mexican candy. I left room in the bags that they could add more candy into them. After they ate we played Hot Chili Pepper (just like hot potato). The kids had fun. We moved on from there to the Pinata where the kids got their goody bags to fill them back up with the candy. There is never a perfect way to make a pinata safe inside but with some brainstorming and help from my dad we all had a great time and no one or nothing was hurt. After that we ate cake and opened gifts. Everyone said their goodbyes and we cleaned up. </div><br /><div>I was grateful to have Synda one of the youth from my church (she has also interned with me at a wedding) there to help with set up and clean up and anything in between. It was great to have someone there to do those things and keep me there to host and entertain. (Hint that's why you need to hire me to deal with all the details and you enjoy your kids party :-) ). </div><div> </div><div>Visit the Stress Free Events Facebook Fan page for more photos</div><div> </div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-6506715079667076812010-02-22T12:22:00.000-08:002010-02-22T12:46:53.892-08:00Sweet 16<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqlYWje6SjDU1RgIwdxMrzl-Z3Rx8kqCFZ5d11L7EiYGQV_UnvBf4G0wWFUKXRB3ndZ-4XR-cpQ0uFelqire51sKRRftiO_LEgqtYt6YxXsVaxrHV87YdoH6LGVXkJiGl9PpzQYPHC_3Fn/s1600-h/DSCN2128.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5441171294153295250" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqlYWje6SjDU1RgIwdxMrzl-Z3Rx8kqCFZ5d11L7EiYGQV_UnvBf4G0wWFUKXRB3ndZ-4XR-cpQ0uFelqire51sKRRftiO_LEgqtYt6YxXsVaxrHV87YdoH6LGVXkJiGl9PpzQYPHC_3Fn/s400/DSCN2128.JPG" /></a><br /><div>Sorry this party was almost a month ago and I am just getting around to blogging it. I have know Azmera since she was first born. Her mom and I went to school together and my mom and her grandmother worked together. Come to think about her mom and I worked together right along side our moms as well back when I was in college. </div><br /><div>This family has gone through a lot this past year and I wanted to make sure that Azmera had the best sweet 16 party she could have. We were on a pretty tight budget but with some help from some awesome vendors it came off.</div><br /><div>Azmera wanted purple and gold and green to be her colors and she wanted a carnival theme. We went a little traditional Carny style carnival and a little Mardi Gras carnival. Threw in some stars that the birthday girl loved and we had a party!</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>Those that made this happen:</div><br /><div>DJ: <a href="http://www.stretchsound.com/">Stretch Sound</a>. JT was out of town at a family obligation, but Allen and Jarrod stepped up and found all the music she wanted and kept people tapping their toes. </div><br /><div>Photos: Me. I tried to get as much as I could. I had someone else lined up to come help but a stomach bug while pregnant did not allow that to happen. </div><br /><div>Cake: <a href="http://www.bbbakeshoppe.com/index.html">Bippity Boppity Bake Shoppe</a>. Cyndi did an amazing job of capturing just what the birthday girl wanted, and it tasted so good. </div><br /><div>Food: All the food was donated or bought by the family and friends and family served. Azmera wanted hot dogs, snow cones, nachos, and popcorn. The family that runs the concessions at the soccer and softball fields really helped out by getting us all the equipment we needed to pull that off and serve the food (thanks Rebecca).</div><br /><div>Venue: Dunbar Recreation Center.</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>All the vendors went above and beyond. they knew what type of budget we had to work with and they made it happen. I highly recommend checking them out for you next event. They are all so great.</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>Check out <a href="http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=148466&id=118409394237&saved">Photos</a> on the facebook fan page and become a fan if not one already </div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-84337253796077042602010-01-18T16:00:00.003-08:002010-01-18T16:37:17.681-08:00Diana and KeeganDiana and Keegan had a wonderful wedding reception at <a href="http://www.mercuryhall.com/">Mercury Hall.<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428235096368883490" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMjq7n-NZYobdJPe_Bd6lDwA9wpNZvCW1Qh9WYCGN5K6ma5ioZ__mhiwCEIHMF8FAdFkB5z8RxIB1ARf9krLnITJ6K0TCqxYF6GgFq18QUpb91eFcEuJkG-Jgkcz5HRpgzmdWcFqccds_h/s400/20753_268562191822_83084481822_4419222_5343887_n.jpg" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIjNtwCJXF7cukiW3ifsxgjrZesGfEmr_EVEkh93EfI4KL9PB7MVADMjimKr7bMGndexQDTKEAs_n95_JsT5_rRFuti_ylwFoyTGIgQxJZ86zHGWcD4eYGjCvjnvJJyR-aQ0Na4S5_qKvg/s1600-h/wpid2384-mercury-hall-Austin-wedding-reception-diana-keegan-3.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428234986822560370" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIjNtwCJXF7cukiW3ifsxgjrZesGfEmr_EVEkh93EfI4KL9PB7MVADMjimKr7bMGndexQDTKEAs_n95_JsT5_rRFuti_ylwFoyTGIgQxJZ86zHGWcD4eYGjCvjnvJJyR-aQ0Na4S5_qKvg/s400/wpid2384-mercury-hall-Austin-wedding-reception-diana-keegan-3.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjoSMdWTigcchxHr0NJSckaNA3QrcIp1Z60_0WRjKjFuGB4plC3MT7aMPhqEO2PX2NnprSOfmAuo91P0-QFJpZn3VG2zTcLxi5py8t-wZV0k1l622Jvmmt8_rNY3Sanvw5vWtv29_7KSrxG/s1600-h/wpid2392-mercury-hall-Austin-wedding-reception-diana-keegan-7.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428234723751239922" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjoSMdWTigcchxHr0NJSckaNA3QrcIp1Z60_0WRjKjFuGB4plC3MT7aMPhqEO2PX2NnprSOfmAuo91P0-QFJpZn3VG2zTcLxi5py8t-wZV0k1l622Jvmmt8_rNY3Sanvw5vWtv29_7KSrxG/s400/wpid2392-mercury-hall-Austin-wedding-reception-diana-keegan-7.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9OeFakXC_Tnx5sjY9g7AJrf_AdEztwfxwqBUf5y8R0ac6wcHWNRoAfQK3CVkOpkojxPCkiBqfvTEYvUd4elQTwF-6ZL2hksU7nyhxNXRWqh9n5luerDuIpR09Ohmw6a-R9dHecCkkvDJm/s1600-h/wpid2396-mercury-hall-Austin-wedding-reception-diana-keegan-9.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428234582076280594" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9OeFakXC_Tnx5sjY9g7AJrf_AdEztwfxwqBUf5y8R0ac6wcHWNRoAfQK3CVkOpkojxPCkiBqfvTEYvUd4elQTwF-6ZL2hksU7nyhxNXRWqh9n5luerDuIpR09Ohmw6a-R9dHecCkkvDJm/s400/wpid2396-mercury-hall-Austin-wedding-reception-diana-keegan-9.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><div>I will never forget this wedding. For one it was the coldest day in Texas in decades, but you would not know by the fun all 250 guest were having. Mercury Hall is not really made to sit that many inside so the couple rented a tent and heaters and created dining space outside and various other spaces outside under heaters for guest to mingle. Most people managed to find room on the dance floor. <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiTEzHtFXh_uxOFJqmwTLkM-CCU3xJOwhs6JO2_gn-0DE1yQJaKlVesOilRBSTAEJeu9pG56QTJFpLO9sYhhkW6BymKpxgyBajCJFqIGgVRCuqTRVXvkvMaYfKT0MnXp8Czt-AErvtdV6Ls/s1600-h/wpid2390-mercury-hall-Austin-wedding-reception-diana-keegan-6.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 291px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428234253996865810" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiTEzHtFXh_uxOFJqmwTLkM-CCU3xJOwhs6JO2_gn-0DE1yQJaKlVesOilRBSTAEJeu9pG56QTJFpLO9sYhhkW6BymKpxgyBajCJFqIGgVRCuqTRVXvkvMaYfKT0MnXp8Czt-AErvtdV6Ls/s400/wpid2390-mercury-hall-Austin-wedding-reception-diana-keegan-6.jpg" /></a><br />The dance floor was kept packed with the help of <a href="http://www.cmaustindj.com/">Complete Music</a>. Food was wonderfully prepared by <a href="http://www.unclebillysaustin.com/">Uncle Billy's catering</a>. All these great photos were from Caroline with <a href="http://sweetcarolinephoto.com/">sweet caroline photography.</a> I have to say that I just love working with Mercury Hall. Jarrod over there went above and beyond to make sure we were able to take care of the needs of the couple.<br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div></div></div></div></div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-24720911729243450622010-01-18T10:20:00.000-08:002010-01-18T16:00:10.757-08:00Professional Pictures from Lauren and JustinLaren and Justin aren't they adorable.<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpGwbUb4g7CnqlRDqBGBopYRssUYe9_4ddBFA44OpJmJZmwtekXUWMq1gq_i_d0MaDuHUYmNflbTAa5VGASC9wprp0WkM01WfA4zzRolKuD6NbVA3IWo7mkUC6QxEzHwQrfh7kOAJWa3cW/s1600-h/222.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428233266689551042" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpGwbUb4g7CnqlRDqBGBopYRssUYe9_4ddBFA44OpJmJZmwtekXUWMq1gq_i_d0MaDuHUYmNflbTAa5VGASC9wprp0WkM01WfA4zzRolKuD6NbVA3IWo7mkUC6QxEzHwQrfh7kOAJWa3cW/s400/222.jpg" /></a><br /><div>Here are just a few of the wonderful professional pictures taken by <a href="http://www.jnicholsphoto.com/">The Nichols<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428152209131165618" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZGE28Fz4eN4t1Lbz9e3b7pMV98QpI9PEFMzoufz7sn7X5QOWyPRNFJBl5wUk0tJlBvExq-4GTgkgcGdJMF8AOiigSWuETpDGXZV2OSjgAMAuh3qHxJBz2WSNT42yDE18JNS7wpUX8WntC/s400/074.jpg" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZt_pNQJBIYM7HWB_y-1YO1RsRLEtgVHzqtMXstmgJQx3A6gicGGFXd5xc1Vs5_hWYf7E_IjOcc4IfpX6UVCX8ABQv360-ViGnOTprMT59Ruu0ww0NQxhqVzKHBF6mQe_fcv2G_2TSrB1n/s1600-h/053.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428151352129508930" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZt_pNQJBIYM7HWB_y-1YO1RsRLEtgVHzqtMXstmgJQx3A6gicGGFXd5xc1Vs5_hWYf7E_IjOcc4IfpX6UVCX8ABQv360-ViGnOTprMT59Ruu0ww0NQxhqVzKHBF6mQe_fcv2G_2TSrB1n/s400/053.jpg" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiiBkEk8AQX97jMhkm3q6F_YVd9qFfTlaEY3EhDFqTYOlwVKteFewdGwdMqV1bkMUUGOeWJcVVE8t5Q2qMkXfcxQQX-CGvtFvpaY1qgEs5dMFje5i-mtCpHeRc1o1H-aT-AN_D3oT8T9n3T/s1600-h/022.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428149319353001954" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiiBkEk8AQX97jMhkm3q6F_YVd9qFfTlaEY3EhDFqTYOlwVKteFewdGwdMqV1bkMUUGOeWJcVVE8t5Q2qMkXfcxQQX-CGvtFvpaY1qgEs5dMFje5i-mtCpHeRc1o1H-aT-AN_D3oT8T9n3T/s400/022.jpg" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6LjXQ6y60zzHDEH25uEpM9vM1m0r_GrbB5sSmWekiO-e72_82KUZZb5148b5n4013S6IMx7v0x4VqnqJRbOqtRMLJmA4FmPlci6DSsgHVdf2asN1zI2d3oKBtBH8bSe68OA7IZVCy0VxC/s1600-h/006.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428147207447006434" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6LjXQ6y60zzHDEH25uEpM9vM1m0r_GrbB5sSmWekiO-e72_82KUZZb5148b5n4013S6IMx7v0x4VqnqJRbOqtRMLJmA4FmPlci6DSsgHVdf2asN1zI2d3oKBtBH8bSe68OA7IZVCy0VxC/s400/006.jpg" /></a> Check out more of the professional photographers photos on my facebook <a href="http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/pages/San-Marcos-Texas/Stress-Free-Events/118409394237?ref=ts">fan page</a>.</div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-7311340574190758042010-01-03T13:11:00.000-08:002010-01-03T13:28:23.494-08:00Wedding Items For Sale<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFI91OBbbeF_vzOI_je19n9p6WSuyj8ZM4HyY3Kev-rYaIkBGXmWN134A-ntkzeowqcT_F_7JaR_5MnBqk-2ZLJegza9BuJ0aKIzTfBbuBuVufzHSWGkiHkZF4O2dPGenZNyrRT2VkrhPc/s1600-h/101_0966_edited-1.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5422627889698575938" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFI91OBbbeF_vzOI_je19n9p6WSuyj8ZM4HyY3Kev-rYaIkBGXmWN134A-ntkzeowqcT_F_7JaR_5MnBqk-2ZLJegza9BuJ0aKIzTfBbuBuVufzHSWGkiHkZF4O2dPGenZNyrRT2VkrhPc/s400/101_0966_edited-1.jpg" /></a><br />This is a list from the mom of one of my past brides. You can look up Casey and DJ's wedding here on the blog or on facebook for more photos. Casey is out of state stationed with her new Sailor hubby, so her mom is taking care of selling this stuff. If interested in any of it let me know and I can get you contact with her. Also pass this on to others who might be needing it.<br />Thanks<br />Becky<br /><br />WEDDING ITEMS FOR SALE<br /><br /><br />Altar arrangements - absolutely beautiful - 4 ft W x 3 1/2 H - cost $250.00 –<br />will sale for $150.00 each - QTY 2<br />Cally Lilly Centerpieces - Photo doesn't do justice - cost $50.00 - will sale for $28.00 each - QTY 20<br />Sand / Candle centerpieces -cost $8.00 - will sell for $5.00 each QTY 48<br />Church Pew Arrangements - cost $12.00 each - will sell for $6.00 each QTY 16<br />Candelabra Floral Arrangements- cost $25.00 – will sell for $15.00 each – QTY 2<br />Bubble with double heart on top - 65 QTY - $6.00 for all<br />Beautiful cracked glass vases - 9 inches H x 5 1/2 across - cost $18.00 - will sell for $12.00 each QTY 2<br />9 inch Aqua Tool - New - QTY 14 spools - $13.00 for all<br />Small silver frames for reserved - NEW - QTY 6 - $4.00 for all<br />Blue small sea shells - 2 good sizes bags - $5.00<br />White Satin Card Box - paid $20.00 - will sell for $10.00<br />Ring Bearer Pillow New - Not used - cost $12.00 will sell for $6.00<br />Punch glasses 250, Heavy Duty Forks 5 bags of 50 - clear plastic cost $45.00 - will sell for $25.00<br />Double Heart Card Holders - $5.00<br /><br />Miscellaneous silk flowers – $25.00 for all<br /><br />*The cost above reflects only the price for purchasing, does not include cost for floral arranging, or hiring someone to make them.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNH2M4FNlK_UvIws5gsq_b7CjZJcl6K_14XJQUMPXWoj0NlM_biCw4TGNwfd9coKN1P9GRhyphenhyphen45QFMpSv6wpnJqsschcOHO5fBZPJzoYQx54j2m4euq_HvfvSj8AWlkNFFV4ZzlS_6q7Ili/s1600-h/100_1157.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; 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MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5422625394937963410" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi7bx_y4mJkaJjJTmnnNkLJIYy6qkO9PHhqz2OV2KDFcz-KCr_MI_UFOrqsWhrobctadd1xaM-CBWsZepgxUTu6o0vglFsGQNcP6hAiRc77l7A7kNINxAwludklh-LW1mr445EvEC1txLtc/s400/000_0008_edited-1.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div></div></div></div></div></div><</div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-39100866515193509542010-01-02T20:52:00.000-08:002010-01-02T21:07:32.628-08:00What Photographers wish you knew.<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgV13pdWKcB4yABv9Kj1FYlJR3nrHoDK2zV8h1SMRDNfRZlOuegTS_OomK6ssUcnhh97hsE4Il2ppqfnsNdBIu8Fu_ALBI53AAKV4Pi-OjXFr7ccp7hJoHHPXtXTZ6yl_olv4mXWyI-PSg9/s1600-h/Jennifer+and+Jaron+wedding-3687.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 200px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5422375749901890626" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgV13pdWKcB4yABv9Kj1FYlJR3nrHoDK2zV8h1SMRDNfRZlOuegTS_OomK6ssUcnhh97hsE4Il2ppqfnsNdBIu8Fu_ALBI53AAKV4Pi-OjXFr7ccp7hJoHHPXtXTZ6yl_olv4mXWyI-PSg9/s400/Jennifer+and+Jaron+wedding-3687.jpg" /></a><br /><div>*Please do your research. Anyone can buy a nice looking camera and photoshop, put an ad on Craigslist and say they are a photographer. But do they know how to USE that camera? Do they know how to USE photoshop? Just because someone says they do, doesn’t mean that is the reality. Look closely at their pictures, ask to see more than one wedding, ask for references and make sure that you get a good vibe from them and they are telling the whole truth. Everyone started somewhere and was new once but do you really want to be this person’s guinea pig?<br /><br />*Both bride and groom should attend the photographer interviews. Even if the groom says he doesn’t care who you book, once the wedding is over and the pictures are all that is left, he WILL care. On top of the end result, the photographer is going to be with you alllllll day long and if personalities clash, that is going to show in the pictures! The best way to prevent that is to make sure that you click before you book.<br /><br />*If I don’t respond to your email within 12 hours, please don’t freak out. I often have on-location shoots that take me out of the office. If you email over the weekend, don’t be shocked if it takes until Tuesday for me to respond – I am probably shooting over the weekend and then may take Monday off since I worked Friday/Saturday/Sunday.<br /><br />*We charge what we charge for a reason – it is based on what we provide, our experience and how much work we put in processing your images and more. Please don’t schedule an appointment with us if our lowest package is equal to your whole wedding budget and expect to negotiate us down. And please don’t say that “so and so studio” will do the ‘same thing’ for $1000 less and ask us to match – trust me, they ARE NOT doing the ‘same thing’ as we do.<br /><br />*Trust your gut. If you love a photographer’s pictures so much that you want to steal their sample books and show them to everyone you know, fair chance you will love your own pictures. Go with someone you LOVE and trust they will create pictures for you that someone else will want to steal and show to everyone too.<br /><br />*Please hire a professional planner. Don’t trust this once in a lifetime day and all that money to a friend or family member who ‘loves to plan events.’ Having the help of a planner will make your life, my life and all your other vendor’s lives so much easier before, during and even after the wedding. Even if you can only afford an hour or two of their time, having someone get you on the right path is so very valuable and will really make the planning process so much easier.<br /><br />*Plan your wedding with purpose – from the dress to the details to the vendors your choose, make sure that there is meaning behind each decision you make. It will make looking at those amazing pictures that I am going to take for you that much more special in 20/30/40 years.<br /><br />*A better meal for the photographer is going to equal better pictures in the long run. Usually by dinner time we have already worked a hectic 6-8 hours capturing every detail that you have worked so hard to put together. Now imagine how deflating it is to sit down to a cold, stale turkey (or worse salami) sandwich, a spotted apple and a dry cookie – you might as well give us a juice box too. Some venues push the boxed meal as a savings to you but what is that $20 or so per person worth it in the long run? Serving your photographer a hot, fresh meal will help them refuel and be in top form to capture the rest of your wedding – including all the fun of your reception!<br /><br />*All that being said, we understand that some choices have to be made and if you are serving your guests steak and lobster, it may not be feasible to serve us the same thing. If it isn’t, ask your caterer for less expensive – but still HOT – options for us – even a simple pasta with meat sauce is better than the dreaded boxed vendor meal.<br /><br />*Ask your caterer to serve us immediately following the bridal party. Sometimes the lag in a large room can be upwards of 20 to 30 minutes from the time the bride and groom get their entrée until the last table is served. If we are among those last tables, there is a good chance we won’t even have been served our entrée by the time you are ready to start making the rounds to different tables. Serving us early in the process means we will be on the same schedule as you and ready to capture the next events as soon as you are ready for them to start.<br /><br />*You have likely invested a lot of money in photography so please make sure that you have designated enough time for it on your wedding day. Ask your photographer for input on the wedding day timeline – they know what they need so ask them! If you have a planner/coordinator, they will likely do this for you but it should come up in your final photography meeting anyway. Also, make sure that everyone knows where they need to be and when – don’t forget to tell Grandma to stick around after the ceremony for pictures or the family pictures won’t have Grandma in them.<br /><br />*Some photographers absolutely refuse to work from a list of shots while others request one. If we request it, please keep it simple. If you hired us for our style, let us do our style! A tedious list of formal shots is not going to tell the story of your wedding day.<br /><br />*If you hired me because you love my photojournalistic style, realize that you cannot stop what you are doing to smile and pose for the camera every time you see me!! That’s not photojournalism and you will end up looking like all you did all day long was stand like a soldier and smile at the camera. If you want true memories, expressions, and personalities to come through in your photographs, then you need to enjoy your day and let your photographer do what you hired him/her to do.<br /><br />*Please give me some creative license. If I ask you to do something that might seem a little out of the ordinary or if I spot a location that speaks to me but it wasn’t on the original list or not what you had in mind initially, just go with it. You hired me because you like my work and trust me, so give me the creative room to put my best foot forward and put you in the best light.<br /><br />*With regard to how you look on your wedding day, some basic tips:<br />1. Don’t buy a dress that accentuates areas of your body you don’t like – even Photoshop won’t fix that.<br />2. Your makeup should be an upgrade of what you might usually wear for a night out. You want to look like YOU, just a slightly ‘better’ you.<br />3. If you are the same height or taller than your fiancé but don’t want to accentuate that on your wedding day, don’t wear heels.<br />4. Stop tanning several days before the wedding to avoid looking red, blotchy and dry.<br />5. If you have frizzy hair or hair that goes flat as the day goes on, the same thing is going to happen on your wedding day! Pick a hairstyle that works with your hair, not against its natural style.<br />6. Leave the body glitter/shimmer at home. It looks like white spots or sometimes even sweat in pictures.<br /><br />*I am not a wedding planner or coordinator. I have been asked/expected/ordered to do everything from coordinate the processional to call other vendors to see where they were to bustle gowns to cut and serve the wedding cake! I am happy to help where I can but if I were doing those things, who is going to be doing what you actually hired me for – taking the pictures?<br /><br />*Photoshop can work miracles but if you are expecting a miracle, please expect a price.<br /><br />* I promise you I am going to take a lot of time to edit your pictures and make them phenomenal but please bear in mind, I have made the same commitment to other couples whose weddings were before yours. I am going to take as much care with your pictures when it is your turn – calling me every 3 days is not going to make me move any faster (in fact, it will likely push you down the list!). If I am more than a week late from my promised time frame, go ahead and check in but until that time frame is up – please be patient!<br /><br />*You know how you can see happy and in love in pictures? You can also see snotty, nasty, angry, upset, overwhelmed and whiny. Which would you rather have come through in your pictures?<br /><br />*Finally, be real, be you, be adventurous, be creative, be open, have fun, enjoy yourself, let loose, be nice, be in love, be happy and listen to the professionals you hired – they kind of know what they’re doing!<br /><br />So there you have it – some of the things that Photographers wish you knew. Thanks to all my photographer friends who contributed – great insight and very interesting!<br /><br />* One last one. If you are a guest at a wedding and photobug yourself please know that they couple is on a timeline to get to the reception and everytime I have to wait for you to take a photo it delays the whole process. Also there are times you may be in the way for what I am getting paid by the couple to do. I will be nice, but when I ask you to move or wait a moment to take a photo please dont get upset. I am just doing what the couple hired me to do and I want to give them their moneys worth. </div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-71267596011916363602010-01-01T08:06:00.001-08:002010-01-01T12:24:37.807-08:002009 Thank You<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 266px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5421804568711745538" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiH-QNLk_SCOzx-hMESzUCBYNKevrUp31Semt8Ho5XaFMJXbY1Nci4DTwBhcMH89G7N-iQWuFQAnJsNVkqVBoKClrfvE8NccK88ZkgGwKcoST4jpA_edWThJR2B_EngrXoj-sw0p_mWksG2/s400/black+and+white+couple+at+pool.jpg" /><br /><div>Just a quick look at some of the weddings we were fortunate enough to help with in 2009. Its been an amazing year and every wedding was a blessing to work on. Thanks for letting us be a part of your special day.</div><br /><div><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5421869371589366962" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBHGUs8Z1PRP_u2VBfQB9lppDeaJ9anSxrLPXT1003kuQcYBjI6dGc1_iypt5l4eNMb8Etst_WQ-R5KrzDjkoMg31WzeXBdbz3o_lhP4zfsxudv-IJ3qFsOtxiCAjgbnG1EZhu4Mx_fcjS/s400/Ricky+and+Marissa+061.JPG" /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtC-_dIJOr_jEDcQQ8Yyhl3_o5hnOfSle0cB6-KZpOrhbVU4o1xYT6711cKCgOXz2oY8IGK1_66GllH6EJK2dFOW-tMJCp23IyuZrNJSlpL_J7F5zo0fY-Tp65EpxP380jiTalEOCkF5s6/s1600-h/couple+on+swing.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5421867901487476770" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtC-_dIJOr_jEDcQQ8Yyhl3_o5hnOfSle0cB6-KZpOrhbVU4o1xYT6711cKCgOXz2oY8IGK1_66GllH6EJK2dFOW-tMJCp23IyuZrNJSlpL_J7F5zo0fY-Tp65EpxP380jiTalEOCkF5s6/s400/couple+on+swing.jpg" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg9Gitp83tA2oKrEOFHp7QXSLEH2W-Tab6ezGdZIdzw3Tezic7ITz4qqzmtECJzzkvk-48UA5tKr22_Aua7sxm9MNqk_3kmlh9THQG7wo15lIG-_Uwx0IydtCGYow2Ad9dNGDDTvc-dANs_/s1600-h/couple+him+gazing+at+her.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; 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MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5421803895824691474" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxblb7mtcd_l8zWL8PcNlvz0zCpPn3dp9UtfP_EQuJB7YfFzrnzzdVeZegOgk1FcyMbkwah4-8okN2z1mxSBsLMngDhK06hZizduvetIeZE7i03qlN4ClXPrHrs9s95W8hm84ffinLDsU-/s400/9+-+Outside.jpg" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghvOjPHbLdjOwOOtqnhNMWrwIZRGuakX3tQiOz089edU6NpsQub_Zbh8b2ilSrVED_1im7roOhXdMkUpDbPgD_xkcKWnx4ElXvLyMf25I6J8pcmkfM-Jnh85JQ81T8OM1W2PaNb5EDePEb/s1600-h/20562_1273797839354_1062176181_838021_2785047_n.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 268px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5421803653810525426" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghvOjPHbLdjOwOOtqnhNMWrwIZRGuakX3tQiOz089edU6NpsQub_Zbh8b2ilSrVED_1im7roOhXdMkUpDbPgD_xkcKWnx4ElXvLyMf25I6J8pcmkfM-Jnh85JQ81T8OM1W2PaNb5EDePEb/s400/20562_1273797839354_1062176181_838021_2785047_n.jpg" /></a><br />*If your photo is not here and you were married in 2009 its only because I don't have your photos from your wedding. I still love you*</div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-13081634937067647572009-12-29T08:55:00.000-08:002009-12-29T09:08:59.260-08:00Planning a Stress Free New Years Party<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3Lo44RYf-1RJcfBDXdYjlDoKEyItFd8-8KuqHxvNou7x21QYCSySy9vqvPDwFEePIoIvYNOXKYuyqDCEul6Vjm8r7mDns8L3JtQJejksr9HwyJ0O7X0hwyjxx1Ik2-umwUibRTp6SWmbN/s1600-h/the+apple+juice.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3Lo44RYf-1RJcfBDXdYjlDoKEyItFd8-8KuqHxvNou7x21QYCSySy9vqvPDwFEePIoIvYNOXKYuyqDCEul6Vjm8r7mDns8L3JtQJejksr9HwyJ0O7X0hwyjxx1Ik2-umwUibRTp6SWmbN/s400/the+apple+juice.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5420706068054492882" /></a><br />While there is always some stress involved in planning any event, there are a number of steps you can take in reducing the amount of stress involved while you are planning your New Years Eve party. <br /><br />There may still be a few areas which cause concern or stress but if you follow these tips, the event will likely be more enjoyable for you and the guests.<br /><br />Consider making the dress for the event casual instead of formal to create a more stress free environment. <br /><br />This simple step can be very effective for reducing the stress level. <br />First of all, if the affair is casual, the host will have to spend less time getting dressed for the party. This frees you up to deal with the last minute details not the formal attire.<br /><br />It also helps to reduce the stress level because guests expect more elegant food for a formal party than they do for a casual party so there is less stress to prepare and serve an elaborate meal at the party.<br /><br />Regardless of the type of food you decide to serve, preparing the food for a New Years Eve party can be a significant cause of stress. <br /><br />Hiring a caterer is the most efficient way to minimize this stress. But this is not always an option. So stick to simple foods that can be made in advance. Or pick up party trays from the local grocery store.<br />Or one fun way to do food is to make the party a potluck event. <br /><br />Having guests bring dishes such as side dishes, salads, appetizers, desserts and even main dishes or drinks greatly reduces the amount of work for the host. <br /><br />In this scenario the host only has to worry about providing one or two items and coordinating the other guests to ensure they do not all bring similar items. <br /><br />Another option is what I call the buffet bar. Set up a pasta bar with a few different pastas and a few sauces serve a salad and garlic bread and guest are happy. Or a taco bar with taco shells meat and fillings so guest can build their own. Both require minimal cooking and go a long way.<br /><br />Another inexpensive option which can help to reduce the amount of stress typically associated with preparing the food for a New Years Eve party is to serve only appetizers, desserts and cocktails at the party. <br /><br />This is significantly less expensive as appetizers are traditionally much less expensive than main course items. <br /><br />It is also acceptable to do this because most New Years Eve parties do not start until 8:00-9:00 at night. <br /><br />It is acceptable to assume most guests will have had dinner earlier in the evening but as a courtesy to the guests it is worthwhile to indicate on the invitations that only appetizers and desserts will be served.<br /><br />Keep the guest list down, and know your guests. Limiting the number of people at the event will keep cost down and you won't have as much to plan for. Also know your guest. If they have children let them know in advance if this is a party for kids to attend or not. If children are welcome plan some things for them. Like movies and popcorn in a separate room. Be sure to have some sparkling grape or apple juice and plastic champagne flutes so they can toast in the new year as well. And provide lots of pillows and blankets for those that might fall asleep before the end of the party. In fact tell parents to bring the kids in the PJ's and slippers.Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-54092341426240062372009-12-28T16:29:00.000-08:002009-12-28T16:45:21.900-08:00Stress Free Baby Shower<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzga-dCURQy3pVrxbcq_cQG7_tCCwNiDdIr54Y-AnL-E7i8AwlFsvZJEdMZXlzValJzOBoWv5hZy1MjHB4Mr6Mk_nh92kwcSgIqoZWQffw0GLlJRrOXv_E60Uc1yLjlk28lNZemZhVuqW-/s1600-h/babyshowertheknot.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 225px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5420452731158733218" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzga-dCURQy3pVrxbcq_cQG7_tCCwNiDdIr54Y-AnL-E7i8AwlFsvZJEdMZXlzValJzOBoWv5hZy1MjHB4Mr6Mk_nh92kwcSgIqoZWQffw0GLlJRrOXv_E60Uc1yLjlk28lNZemZhVuqW-/s400/babyshowertheknot.jpg" /></a><br /><div>Planning A Baby Shower - Stress Free Success<br />Do you need help putting together a baby shower?<br />Because you're about to learn how to put together a successful party the expectant mom will remember fondly for years to come. A successful baby shower is easier to put together than you might think. Really? The secret to your success is -- all in planning a baby shower.<br /><br />Waiting until the last minute is a recipe for disaster and is almost guaranteed to stress you out, give you sleepless nights and countless days in the panic mode. Not a pretty picture.<br /><br />When to start<br /><br />Since most baby showers take place a couple of months up to a couple of weeks prior to the babies due date, you need to start planning things about four months before the babies due date. That will give you about two months at least to put everything together and send out invitations early enough to give everyone time to put your party on their calendar.<br /><br />What to do first<br /><br />The very first thing you should do is to just sit down with the expectant mom and find out what kind of party she'd like. Ask her if she'd like a theme and if so what? What kind of cake does she like, who does she want to invite, women only or are you going to invite the guys too? And what kind of baby things does she need? And if she knows the gender of the baby, have they chosen a name?<br /><br />Now that you know what the expectant mom would like, you have enough information to plan a wonderful party.<br /><br />Decide on a theme<br /><br />Planning a baby shower gets a whole lot easier once you've decided on a theme.Does mom have a theme in mind? If not, the sky is the limit. You can get very creative here. Prepackaged themes include everything from "Rubber Ducky" to "Baby Einstein" and everything in-between. Winnie the Pooh, Noah's Ark, Rainbow, Animals and the list goes on. But don't limit yourself to pre-packaged themes. I have done fun shower with a Peter Rabbit theme and one with a Nursery Rhyme theme.<br /><br />Once you know the theme, you'll know what kind of invitations to send out, what kind of cake to put together, decorations, party supplies and games to look for.<br /><br />Invitation wording<br /><br />What's the reason for sending out invitations to any event?<br /><br />It's not a silly question, or even a trick question.<br /><br />The reason you send out invitations is to get people to show up. Because without invited guests your baby shower would be much more than a disappointment for your expectant mom. So you want your invitations to let everyone know that you're planning a baby shower they won't want to miss.<br /><br />Be sure to include all the important information like the date, time and location. Also include the full name of the mom-to-be, and if you know it, the gender and name of the baby. This will help your guests when it comes to buying baby gifts and other things. Also include if possible where the mom is registered. This unlike weddings is proper.<br /><br />Play up your theme. If your theme is "Rubber Ducky" you might want to pick up some cute little rubber duck thingies to include in the invitation. You can start off by stating "Rubber Ducky says you're the one... and you are! You're invited to attend our Rubber Ducky baby shower for... "Everything is going to be lots of Ducky fun."<br /><br />Of course if you aren't feeling creative you can play it safe and pick up some preprinted invitations. I strongly recommend picking up your invitations, decorations, and party supplies online. It's convenient (no driving all over town only to discover they don't have what you need) the selection is wonderful and your choices will be shipped directly to you. It doesn't get any more stress-free than that.<br /><br />Your baby shower cake<br /><br />Oh the yummy thoughts!<br /><br />Everybody loves a colorful tasty cake. And when planning a baby shower you want to make sure the cake is special. Now before you panic, you'll be very happy to learn that you do not have to bake a cake from scratch. Just visit your favorite bakery and pick up a delicious, pre-frosted cake (make sure it's the kind our expectant mom likes) and have the baker write something appropriate on it. But we're not through yet.<br /><br />You can easily make this cake very memorable by picking up a theme appropriate cake topper. Just visit that online party store. You can even find edible cake art images. Now all you need to do is place the edible cake art and the topper on your cake and -- instant 3-D masterpiece.<br /><br />I told you it would be easy! And don't forget to take lots of pictures of your cake. </div><br /><div>But in case you want to be found on Cake Wrecks blog avoid cakes that look like babies or pregnant moms. They may look cute in the picture but who wants to eat the swollen belly part of the cake or the babies arms? Think it through.<br /><br />Diaper cake<br /><br />In case you haven't heard a diaper cake isn't a cake at all (but it sure can look like one). A diaper cake is a very creative "cake" made up of things like diapers, blankets, baby pens, rattles, bibs and just about anything else you can think of. Diaper cakes aren't there to replace your yummy cake, but a diaper cake is really a wonderful addition to any baby shower.<br />Just check out craigslist or ask around the office someone is bound to know someone who makes these, or there are online video's that will show you how if you are patient and creative.<br /></div><br /><div>Decorations for a fun party location<br /><br />Get decorations to match your theme. Banners, streamers, posters, standees (a stork). Keep it fun, keep it colorful and don't be afraid to be creative. If the shower is for some reason being held at the home the new baby will be coming home to then keep the direction posters simple and not baby themed. It does not happen often, but putting out baby shower here signs and welcome home baby signs can be an invitation to sick people to break in and try to hurt or steal the newborn. So keeping signs simple are best. Better to include a map and not worry a bout street markers.<br /><br />Baby shower games<br /><br />You can find lots of fun printable games online. From baby word scrambles to baby bingo. These games are very popular and easy to play. You should plan 3 or 4 games. You don't want to wear everybody out -- especially our mommy. Also make sure she wants games. And what her comfort level in participating in the games is. For example she may not want to play guess what's in the diaper if she has been dealing with bad morning sickness. Or guess how big her belly is. That may be a sensitive subject for some women. But you can have fun without games as well.<br /><br />Food to nibble on<br /><br />Keep it simple - finger foods are best. How about a healthy veggie tray, finger sandwiches, fruit bits, party mix, chips and anything else mommy might like. Use paper plates and you won't have a big clean-up. Now pick up a fun guest book, some disposable cameras for the guests and you're all set.<br /><br />Planning a baby shower well in advance makes all the difference. You won't get all stressed out and by shopping online you don't even have to drive all over town. Your mommy-to-be is going to love her shower, your invited guests will have a great time and everyone will be thanking you.<br /><br />Now you've learned all the secrets to planning a baby shower that's going to be a big success. And all without stress, without a single sleepless night, or an "oh-no, I forgot ---"<br /><br />Instead, you'll be able to sit back and enjoy the party. Planning a baby shower will make you a super star.<br /><br />Have fun </div><br /><div></div><br /><div>Or you can call me and we can sit down and plan it all out and I can help make decorations and invitations and such. </div><br /><div>Becky</div><br /><div></div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-31991727740810942752009-12-28T07:04:00.000-08:002009-12-28T07:10:42.718-08:00Top 5 Money Waisters at a Wedding<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizv713ytbk4NvcgAOo17oGt24G0vfQ451PzxblJaReWs8jT5jExYRBQBtT8JimXzy2GVTl__Of_1mfn-JcPlCR7jq2neqAfC05AzyMCmGU-XwuPri1Y6792mDpBQ8jaiMQbRaGRsDU4ORB/s1600-h/0633.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5420304666996269042" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizv713ytbk4NvcgAOo17oGt24G0vfQ451PzxblJaReWs8jT5jExYRBQBtT8JimXzy2GVTl__Of_1mfn-JcPlCR7jq2neqAfC05AzyMCmGU-XwuPri1Y6792mDpBQ8jaiMQbRaGRsDU4ORB/s400/0633.jpg" /></a><br /><div>Top 5 Biggest Wedding Money Wasters<br />Save Your Money and Avoid These Wedding Planning Traps<br />By Nina Callaway, About.com Guide<br />Regardless of budget size, brides of all kinds say that after the wedding, there were several things on which they wished that they hadn't wasted their money. For every person, this list will be different of course. But here is a brutally honest look at what I think are simply not worth it.<br /><br />1.Meaningless and Expensive Wedding Favors Wedding favors can be a thoughtful way of saying thank you to your guests. But far too often they're a meaningless knickknack. Your guests don't need a candy dish, or a little silver bell. Don't think their cute place card holder doubles as a favor; what are they going to do with one place card? And do you really want a plastic Frisbee with your friends' wedding date on it?<br /><br />You're going to spend a lot of money on things that will just collect dust, or end up in the trash. I think it's far better to not give favors, or to make a donation to a charity. But cute favors include ones that are personal to the bride and groom. You might give food favors from the city you live in, or a box of your very favorite chocolates.<br /><br />One of my favorite ideas is a breakfast bag. Send guests home with some beautiful muffins, a couple of good quality tea bags, and perhaps a little pot of jam or honey. The next morning they'll be sure to enjoy your treat as they reminisce about everything that happened.<br /><br /><em>Money Saving Tip: Some of the most thoughtful wedding favors can be handmade. Put together a booklet of family recipes, or create a CD with an insert explaining why you chose each song.<br /></em><br /><br />2.Endless Bride and Groom Swag It may be fun to have a pair of track pants that say "Bride" across your butt, but how long are you really going to wear them? You certainly don't need to own multiple pieces of clothing that say "bride" or "groom" because they've got a limited shelf-life. And, you do have an identity beyond that of a bride. You don't own a sweatshirt that trumpets your profession, do you? So why would you want people out in public to see you first and foremost as a bride?<br /><br />Perhaps the biggest money waster of all is giving your bridal party "bridesmaid" and "groomsman" gear. Do you really think that groomsman is ever going to wear that tacky hat ever again? Do you think he'll even enjoy wearing it the first time?<br /><br /><em>Money Saving Tip Buy a pair of pajama pants or underwear that says "bride" or "groom." Rather than feeling embarrassed about wearing a bride sweatshirt out in public, clothing meant for the home will remind the two of you of your wedding day. Leave the other bridal swag at the store.<br /></em><br /><br />3.Huge Wedding Cakes Some couples only invite 50 guests, but they still order a cake that serves 300. With cakes going for $2-$15 a slice, that extra size adds up quickly. While a large cake looks impressive, a small cake can be charming. If height is a priority, consider asking your baker to use a separator set, and adding fresh flowers between the layers. Or, use a large cake topper, such as this tiered floral centerpiece.<br /><br /><em>Money Saving Tip If you are having more than 100 guests, ask for a display cake that only feeds 100 people. Use inexpensive sheet cakes in the back to feed the extra guests. No one will know the difference! </em><br /><br />4.Too Many Mementos The wedding industry loves to sell you goods by promising they will be keepsakes you can pass down to your children. Having mementos of your special day is a good thing, but you don't need very many. Put together a wedding album, and perhaps preserve your wedding dress. But deeply consider every other item. Do you really need a personalized pen to sign the guest book? Is preserving your bouquet worth the money and the space in your home? You don't need to have a wedding video, unless you will really watch it and enjoy it regularly. And not every toasting glass, picture frame, and photo album needs to be monogrammed with your wedding date.<br /><br />Rather than filling up your house with tons of wedding mementos, leave room for creating new memories.<br /><br /><em>Money Saving Tip If an album is not included in your wedding photography package, consider doing it for yourself! That way, you can include the shots that are most important to you, as well as any mementos like your wedding program.<br /></em><br />5.Too Many Bridesmaids and Groomsmen Have you ever seen a wedding with more than a dozen attendants? It starts to look like a wedding army. Of course, if you are inviting lots of guests, it makes sense to have a large wedding party. But before you start adding your friend who you haven't seen since high school, and all of your cousins, consider what the role of the wedding party should be.<br /><br />Even if you're not paying for the wedding party's attire, each of those attendants requires a bouquet or boutonniere, a thank you gift, and an invitation to the rehearsal dinner and other parties. Tack on just a few unnecessary bridesmaids or groomsmen and you're potentially talking about hundreds of dollars.<br /><br /><em>Money Saving Tip Give some of your friends and loved ones different roles in the wedding. Consider asking them to read during the ceremony or give them a special role at the reception. You might even just thank them in the program for helping to support you during the wedding planning process. </em></div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-73965136115338935192009-12-28T06:15:00.000-08:002009-12-28T06:47:42.937-08:00Rachel and Erik 12/19/09<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOLjV1v7sE1zmM_E8WKRfKbceeLggcdk5ndLTzWPNg0U0zuTSS_44wPxwUZ7UI-kUW_ToSufBK9f5u6YQR0WNNB9Xh1JXuAxlj7zaXvqi_-XHkjH1_0GkelH4jGsWKrl4eCjcTlQufpP4t/s1600-h/2009-12-20+Dec+19-20+Kimber+Rachel+and+Lindsay6.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5420298324675586146" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOLjV1v7sE1zmM_E8WKRfKbceeLggcdk5ndLTzWPNg0U0zuTSS_44wPxwUZ7UI-kUW_ToSufBK9f5u6YQR0WNNB9Xh1JXuAxlj7zaXvqi_-XHkjH1_0GkelH4jGsWKrl4eCjcTlQufpP4t/s400/2009-12-20+Dec+19-20+Kimber+Rachel+and+Lindsay6.jpg" /></a><br /><div><br /><br /><div>Rachel and Erik had a beautiful wedding. I was so thrilled to work with them on this very special day. There were so many great details that I think only photos will capture best. Their awesome photographer Any DeYoung will be getting photos to me soon, but in the mean time I wanted to let you all know that the details on this wedding are coming.<br />Until then let me list some of the great "cast of character's" that made this event happen<br />Venue: <a href="http://www.mcnayart.org/">The McNay Art Museum</a> in San Antonio<br />Caterer: <a href="http://www.trueflavors.com/">True Flavors</a><br />DJ: <a href="http://www.fredthedj.com/">Encore Entertainment</a><br />Photos: <a href="http://amydeyoungphotographer.blogspot.com/">Amy DeYoung</a><br />Video: Distinct Video Design (dvdsatx@yahoo.com)<br />Centerpieces: True Flavors<br />Personal Flowers: <a href="http://www.edensecho.com/">Edens Echo<br /></a>My Staff: Channin Young, JT Lauderdale, Andrew Lauderdale<br />Chuppah: Stress Free Events built by my great dad Tom Lauderdale<br />(and yes we still have this structure and it can be rented out, or borrowed under certain circumstances, just ask).<br />(Photos here are from Erin at Edens Echos of the flowers. They were stunning. More photos coming).<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5420298233469675810" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRcaASjo3d-FIuO_X8pBWrB3xjjR0xE3Ij1BjhT6ZC-FE47X1L2dutiB0Db1S-TRxNb4eElgdIiSOdUzDA8aQINnAscICWIUHSJ_nQ1eAfL5j6sFdoXDXVT33YVXQeyQsWg92Udxoq_EHW/s400/2009-12-20+Dec+19-20+Kimber+Rachel+and+Lindsay5.jpg" /></div></div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6419185521032615646.post-8403212670807546702009-12-16T06:48:00.001-08:002009-12-16T06:56:40.109-08:00Slow to blog<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJZWFqGzUuky2EM5_n0qiDwsi1LHH5r9iR16AxkFxiXm5W5mtiw0MTBs0YR-ls77AqC2PWOr24rkMMA5o5EC34a74QS4h_Xck5A1DT-8UZXcmQeD6mbBoiLFyPPom5cDqdR9PrMfniznNP/s1600-h/family+55.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 266px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5415847564994352882" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJZWFqGzUuky2EM5_n0qiDwsi1LHH5r9iR16AxkFxiXm5W5mtiw0MTBs0YR-ls77AqC2PWOr24rkMMA5o5EC34a74QS4h_Xck5A1DT-8UZXcmQeD6mbBoiLFyPPom5cDqdR9PrMfniznNP/s400/family+55.jpg" /></a><br /><div>Sorry I have been so slow to post to the blog. Its been that crazy busy time of year. I will have to try and get better about finding things and blogging for you all. I have a wedding this Saturday and I am looking forward to it. There will of course be a blog from that very shortly. Stay tuned and let people know we are here. We are ready to take off for a fab 2010 and need your referrals to keep up the momentum. </div><br /><div>Becky</div><br /><div>In the meantime Merry Christmas and enjoy this photo taken by Cari with Inked Fingers Photography of my family. </div>Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12692515501835375465noreply@blogger.com0